6 Bachelorette Party Do’s and Don’ts

Is Getting Married An Achievement?, wedding diary, engagement, engagement ring, getting married, planning a wedding, marriage, engagement,So, your childhood best friend has found the person of their dreams, and now a wedding is on the cards. While she’s running around checking out fancy cakes and organizing dress fittings, there’s one thing you need to do. Yep, plan the bachelorette party of course! One last celebration before she ties the knot. If you need a little inspiration, read on for some ideas for planning the best bachelorette party!

Do Choose a Theme

Choosing a theme for the party is a good place to start. Not only are themed parties super fun, but planning a fancy dress theme can save the stress of buying an expensive new outfit. Plus, the photos will look fab! There are hundreds of different themes to choose from, and if fancy dress isn’t for you, you can still have themed decor so the place looks awesome. Make sure you put some thought into the bachelorette party supplies, and remember- a little goes a long way!

Don’t Plan It Alone

Planning the party can be a big responsibility and can cause unnecessary stress if you do it alone. Make sure you discuss the plans with the rest of the squad. This way, you can share the responsibilities so the pressure isn’t put on just one person. Planning parties is a lot more fun and stress free when it’s done with others.

Do Listen to the Bride

This is something which is often forgotten, but make sure you listen to what the bride wants! If she cringes at the idea of a stripper, then it’s probably best not to get her one! After all, it is her bachelorette party. It’s often worth asking the bride what she wants to do for her party, or if she has a specific theme in mind. Even if the party is a surprise, pick up on hints or think about what she usually likes and go with that.

Don’t Over Plan

Some people think a bachelorette party means an extensive, week-long celebration packed with activities. However, this is not (always) the case. Everyone has a life of their own, and it’s not always possible to drop plans because your friend’s sister is getting married. If you’ve all got busy schedules, don’t feel you need to plan a full week of celebrations, a weekend or even just one evening may be more suited for you- and that’s ok! No bachelorette party is the same. Check out these super fun and easy wedding themed games you can play at home. Some of these are sure to make you giggle. This doesn’t take too much planning and will keep the costs of the party low.

Do Stick to a Budget

One of the most important things when it comes to party planning is sticking to a budget. There is nothing worse than getting stressed over massive budgets, or forking out loans to pay for the perfect party (even if the bride is your bestie). This is another reason to talk to the rest of the squad and see what the general budget is to get an idea before you start booking lavish holidays. Also, sticking to a budget ensures all of the squad can make it to the party; don’t miss out because of expenses. 

Do Focus on Having Fun

The biggest ‘Do’ of all- enjoy yourselves and have fun! This will (hopefully) be the bride’s last ever bachelorette party, so make sure it’s laughter filled. The bride won’t mind if you haven’t planned an expensive week away, as long as all of her favorite girls are together to make memories before she says ‘I do’.

Hopefully this list has given you some thought and ideas on planning the best bachelorette party you can. Oh, and one last thing: take plenty of photos so you can look back on the memories, even if you can’t remember most of the night!

 

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SISTER SCRIBES’ READING ROUND UP: FEBRUARY

Susanna:

The Mermaid’s Scream by Kate Ellis

Famous author Wynn Staniland is as well-known for having turned into a recluse after his wife’s suicide as he is for the high-brow books he wrote before the tragedy. Now he has agreed to let Zac Wilkinson write his biography, but what are the startling facts Zac claims to have unearthed? When Zac is found murdered, DI Wesley Peterson’s investigation reveals a series of secrets in a mystery that successfully blends the present with the past.

Kate Ellis deftly handles the multiple threads in this story. As well as being intriguing and drawing the reader further in, the complexities of the plot make it impossible to predict what’s coming next. It is an engrossing, confidently-written story, featuring well-rounded characters.

I listened to the audio version published by Isis Soundings, read by Gordon Griffin, whose narration is in no way showy or intrusive, but who invests each character with their own voice and creates a quietly suspenseful atmosphere.

 

Kitty:

This month I finally finished Penmarric by Susan Howatch – it took ages but allowed me to wallow in adolescent nostalgia, always a favourite activity.

I have started to read Circe by Madeline Miller which I’m loving, my degree was in Classics so I love reading anything that features the Gods, heroes and myths of antiquity and this is beautifully written. She makes everyone so vibrant, I am quite in awe.

I also read Don’t You Forget About Me by Mhairi McFarlane which had me giggling on nearly every page apart from those that made me hold my breath as I raced through. I shall definitely be reading more of hers.

Finally, I have to mention Rachel Burton’s The Pieces of You and Me, a love story so honest, brave and uplifting that I fell deeply in love with it and will keep it forever.

 

Jane:

Although I hadn’t intended to read another Sapere book quite so soon, that’s exactly what happened. I was emailing with Amy Durant, the editorial director, with an idea for a timeslip novel for them and we fell to discussing the structure. As she felt it was something Alexandra Walsh had done particularly well in The Catherine Howard Conspiracy she emailed me an early review copy.

It’s the sort of book you don’t want to say too much about in case you inadvertently slip in a spoiler, but the timelines are split between present day and the early 1540s – not surprisingly, given that was when Catherine Howard was married to Henry VIII. I had expected to enjoy the modern part of the story, but I was completely captivated by Alexandra’s depiction of the Tudor court and the way she brought the historical characters to life.

The book kept me on edge from beginning to end. It was reasonably clear who could be trusted in the historical story but far less so in the contemporary strand and I just had to keep turning the pages. Not only that but the teasing out of an alternative historical truth was done so well that I even ended up almost believing it. The book is everything a classic timeslip should be and I’d thoroughly recommend it. It’s available for pre-order now.

It was when I was in Truro library tracking down local history books for research that I came across Winston Graham’s Poldark’s Cornwall. I’d been hunting for this book for some time and it didn’t disappoint with beautiful photos and the links – real and imagined – between Ross and Demelza’s world. It also contained a couple of pages of useful advice for authors. Most pertinent to me seemed: “…risk of becoming too preoccupied with history… But novels are about life.” I think I should pin that up on my wall.

 

ELICITE – THE NEW FINE WINE SITE YOU NEED TO FOLLOW

Ever find yourself staring at the wine list and praying that you’re not the Chosen One when it comes to selecting the drinks for the table? The launch of Elicite offers a straight-forward, simple education to fine wines that will have you sounding like a sommelier in no time, as well as selling a range of exquisite wines and Champagnes for you to try.

Explore

No matter what you’re keen to showcase, whether it’s your knowledge of varying regions, appellation or food pairings, there are digestible videos, features and snippets that will bring your knowledge up in no time.

Experience

The ‘Shop’ section is a treat for the eyes and naturally, the palette. Prices vary hugely so whatever your budget, there’s something that you can be proud to bring to the dinner table. Magnums, bottles and full collections are available on the site.

Events

Yet to be updated on the site but keep your eyes peeled for bespoke events. The team are keeping deets close to their chest but we expect the events will be a classy and educational affair.

Check out the Elicite website to start your fine wine journey!

Girl, Balancing & Other Stories by Helen Dunmore – Her Final Collection



I loved this stunning collection of short stories from Helen Dunmore. There was a tinge of sadness that this will be her final collection, but we are lucky to have had such a literary talent. Girl, Balancing is also well edited, with the novel being broken down into three section: The Nina Stories, The Present and The Past. A wonderful way to get lost for a few hours. Dunmore excels in historical knowledge and razor sharp observation. The stories are true slices of life.

This very special collection of short stories was gathered by Helen Dunmore’s family in the months following Helen’s death in 2017. Helen’s writing was everywhere, on the computer, on letters to her children, in notebooks, on her ipad, even on her phone. Girl, Balancing is a collection of the very best of those short stories, some fully developed and others partial fragments of what occasionally became novels throughout her career. It is a wonderful insight into the writer’s craft – how one hones plots and develops characters, how Helen’s insight into people and the world surrounding us have always informed her writing. It has been 20 years since Helen published a short story collection and as Helen’s son, Patrick describes in his Introduction, contained within these pages is ‘the pleasure of discovering something new’, even for those familiar with Helen’s novels.

Girl, Balancing
& Other Stories

HELEN DUNMORE

£8.99 Windmill Paperback 7 March 2019

HER FINAL COLLECTION

In this remarkable final volume of short stories, Helen Dunmore explores the fragile ties between passion, familial love, parenthood, friendship and grief often from people who are at turning points in their lives.

With her extraordinary imagination, her gift for making history human, and her talent for acute observation and lyrical storytelling, Dunmore offers a deep insight into the human condition with a collection that will delight and move all her readers.

Helen Dunmore was an award-winning novelist, children’s author and poet who will be remembered for the depth and breadth of her fiction. Rich and intricate, yet narrated with a deceptive simplicity that made all of her work accessible and heartfelt, her writing stood out for the fluidity and lyricism of her prose, and her extraordinary ability to capture the presence of the past.

Her first novel, Zennor in Darkness, explored the events which led D. H. Lawrence to be expelled from Cornwall on suspicion of spying, and won the McKitterick Prize. Her third novel, A Spell of Winter, won the inaugural Orange Prize for Fiction in 1996, and she went on to become a Sunday Times bestseller with The Siege, which was described by Antony Beevor as a ‘world-class novel’ and was shortlisted for the Whitbread Novel of the Year and the Orange Prize. Published in 2010, her eleventh novel, The Betrayal, was longlisted for the Man Booker Prize and shortlisted for the Orwell Prize and the Commonwealth Writers Prize, and The Lie in 2014 was shortlisted for the Walter Scott Prize for Historical Fiction and the 2015 RSL Ondaatje Prize.

Her final novel, Birdcage Walk, deals with legacy and recognition – what writers, especially women writers, can expect to leave behind them – and was described by the Observer as ‘the finest novel Helen Dunmore has written’.

Helen was known to be an inspirational and generous author, championing emerging voices and other established authors. She also gave a large amount of her time to supporting literature, independent bookshops all over the UK, and arts organisations across the world. She died in June 2017.

A PUBLISHER’S YEAR: FEBRUARY – ROMANCE, CRIME, APPLICATIONS

To pick up on the cliffhanger of last month – the exciting Romantic Novelists’ Association news is now public! They are running a new prize from this year, which we have agreed to sponsor. It is officially called the Sapere Books Popular Romantic Fiction Award. The shortlist of six books has been announced. In the running are THE LION TAMER WHO LOST by Louise Beech, ONE THOUSAND STARS AND YOU by Isabelle Broom, YOU ME EVERYTHING by Catherine Isaac, THIS COULD CHANGE EVERYTHING by Jill Mansell and A SKY PAINTED GOLD by Laura Wood. I do have a personal favourite but my lips are sealed until the winner is announced on March 4th!

We are still looking for our first staff-member. Applications are just about closed but we have well over 100 to go through, so that will keep us busy for the next few weeks! We’ve also had our first responses to our ‘Call For Nautical Fiction’ and it looks like we’ll be able to announce some naval fiction deals soon. We have just finalised our schedule for London Book Fair and we are pretty booked up for all three days, plus some evening events so that will be a full-on week for us!

The published titles for this month were a mix of genres. We published Valerie Holmes’ second Regency romance novel in her Yorkshire Saga just in time for Valentines Day. We’ve also published one of our first non-fiction titles: a ‘deadly’ history of the Thames in London by Irish author, Anthony Galvin. That was followed by two classic mysteries: THE PAINTED FACE by Jean Stubbs and STEP IN THE DARK by Elizabeth Lemarchand. Finally, we launched two action-packed thrillers: David Beckler’s debut, BROTHERHOOD, set in urban Manchester and John Matthews’ thought-provoking gun-control thriller, THE SECOND AMENDMENT.

Our final piece of news is that we will be going to CrimeFest this year for the first time, which we are thrilled about. Last year we went ‘on tour’ to cover the Crime Writers’ Association Conference in Shrewsbury and the Historical Novelists’ Conference in Cumbernauld, and to contribute to a writing panel in Chorley. We aren’t actually speaking at CrimeFest so it will be fun to just enjoy all the talks, dress up for the Gala dinner and of course, hang out at the bar 😊. We should find out the longlist for the Sapere Books Historical Dagger Award as well, which is very exciting.

Come back next month for our Book Fair news, March releases, RNA award announcements and potentially a hello from our new Editorial Assistant!

Amy Durant

 

 

IT’S TIME TO START SHOWING THE SCI-FI GENRE SOME LOVE

Science-fiction may be enjoying a meteoric sales boom but it’s still not receiving the acclaim it deserves, writes the British novelist Hannah De Giorgis.

By Hannah De Giorgis

When it comes to the perception of Science Fiction and Fantasy (SF&F) as a genre, there’s a tension between its commercial success and its critical reputation. This time last year, it was reported that combined print and digital book sales in SF&F genres had doubled since 2010.

Today, unit sales of self-published and Amazon-published titles represent almost 50% of all SF&F sales across print, digital and audio. Elsewhere, and especially on the Big Screen, the popularity of SF&F shows no sign of abating: movies including the Maze Runner: The Death Cure, Black Panther, Annihilation, Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom, and Solo: A Star Wars Story grossed billions of dollars at the Box Office and outsold most other genres.

Given its commercial dominance and crossover potential, one might assume that SF&F would carry the same kudos as other acclaimed genres. And yet, when it comes to the “literary” world, it doesn’t.

Despite its importance in popular culture, SF&F is often overlooked and underappreciated critically. For instance, SF&F is rarely offered as a module in undergraduate literature degrees – and, when it is, the relevant lecturer laments that it is regarded as a “lesser” genre. Meanwhile, in literary circles, science-fiction and literary speculative fiction is routinely dismissed and overlooked for most (if not all) of the more prestigious literary prizes. Perhaps because a potential consequence of being regarded as more “mainstream” can automatically render a book as less “serious”.

However, such a dismissal is – I think – unfair. Not only does SF&F arguably require more imagination than most other genres, it also allows writers to really delve into the potential repercussions of technological advancement in modern society. In some cases, sci-fi novelists will possess a comprehensive understanding of the laws of physical sciences, and in others fantasy novelists might fabricate an entirely new world from scratch.

In the glamorous world of film, the problem is less acute; blockbusters like The Martian and Interstellar have and do attract acclaim. That acclaim, however, only goes so far. Interstellar, for instance, was nominated for Academy Awards in categories such as special effects but not for overall picture. The Martian, on the other hand, which of the two movies is more “realistic”, was nominated for Best Picture.

While it would be disingenuous to suggest that critical acclaim is only reserved for Hollywood, it is fair to state that SF&F receives more recognition in the world of film than in the world of literature – and that’s not simply a consequence of the asymmetry of the two industries. And, when I think about it, this shouldn’t be the case given the important role that SF&F has and continues to play in our lives. Sci-fi, in particular, has long been a reflection on society: it shines a spotlight on mankind’s lust for and dependency on emerging technologies, arguably in a manner that would not be nearly as effective if it were not in the sci-fi form. Indeed, SF&F authors have for decades paved the way for Hollywood by daring to explore the potential repercussions of a world that is increasingly advancing technologically. Moreover, the genre offers an imaginative scope that is, in effect, unlimited – as can be demonstrated by many sci-fi movies or fantasy series that immediately spring to mind.

All I can hope is that, little by little, the literary world might cease to look down on SF&F and come to eventually recognise it for the innovative, limitless, and – at times – genius genre that it is.

Threads in Time by Hannah De Giorgis is available from today on Amazon priced £3.49 in Kindle edition and £7.99 in paperback.

Storage Solutions: Wilko Storage Trunk

Spring is in the air and we all know what that means. Yup, time to spritz the house and make it ready for the new season. We got sent this grey storage trunk from Wilko. It is spacious and it looks great. There is a detachable washable lining. This is perfect for laundry, toys, anything you can think of really.

The trunk costs £30 from wilko.com and we highly recommend it.

BLACK & BLUE STEAK RESTAURANT REVIEW

As you’ll have come to learn, here at Frost we are suckers for a good steak and have found YET ANOTHER affordable London based gem.

Black & Blue is a chain of four restaurants in the city and you’ll have probably noticed those blue neon signs dotted all over the city that, for us, are becoming as iconic as the Golden Arches.

We visited the Waterloo branch which is nestled in one of the station arches and the atmosphere hits you immediately. A soft hum of live jazz from the skilled artist near the bar, deep and rich coloured furnishings and low lighting make Black & Blue the perfect spot for date night.

The food menu is loyal to what you expect to see at a steakhouse. For starters, you can choose from soup, wings, skewers, tortilla chips or prawns and all cost between £6.50 and £9. We went for the crispy chicken wings with salt and lime and the king prawns with garlic butter. The batter on the crispy wings packed a brilliant punch and when drizzled with the lime – heaven! The portions were also generous which, for the low price, was a great surprise.

Somebody say steak? Obvs. Let’s be straight here, B&B serves a beautiful steak. You can choose from a Flat Iron, Ribeye, Fillet or a Cote de Boeuf (which comes for one or two share) and each comes with an indulgent sauce of choice. The steaks are hung in the traditional way and aged for up to 28 days and the flavours reflect the TLC that B&B gives up front. Rich, meaty and fairly priced. If you’re not wanting to succumb to steak (we don’t judge.), you can sample one of their burger, ribs or something from the chargrill menu. The chicken breast, mushroom, cream and thyme sauce VERY nearly swayed us!

Black & Blue also knows its wines and has strong selection to choose from. The Domaine Luquet Macon Blanc Villages, Burgundy, may be the priciest bottle on the menu at £38 but the crisp, dry flavour is just divine. As a bonus though, any bottle of wine is half price on Sundays and Mondays so maybe save on splashing out on then!

Visit the Black & Blue website to make a booking.