I had planned to write about Happy Ever after for this month’s post, the last in my Cornish Village School series and out last Thursday.

However, I had a lovely review today that has changed my train of thought. The reader kindly said that she really liked the way I handled difficult topics in an easy way. And this made me want to write about that…handling difficult topics within the confines of light-hearted feelgood reads.

And I ram them in.

So far across five books I have dealt with all sorts of real-life issues, including coercive relationships, maternal loss, war, marital breakdowns, parents with addiction issues, neglect.

I will forever remember my editor’s reaction when pitching the second in the series I dropped into conversation that I wanted to bring in the South Sudanese Civil War. I thought she was going to have a heart attack. I had to reassure her that yes, I was still writing a light-hearted romcom set in Penmenna and that she could a) trust me b) gamble knowing she could always edit it out later.

Why have I insisted on featuring these things? How do I justify including such things in feelgood books? The answer is simple. I love the romance of a romance novel, the sighs, the highs, the hopes and desires and the guaranteed happy-ever-after. But I also like real and relatable characters, people I can empathise with, bond with and enjoy writing about and then reading about (honestly, we have to read our own books so many times before they come to you). And the truth is I don’t know a single person in real life that hasn’t had to deal with trauma in one way or another, and many people who have to deal with far more than their fair share. Therefore, I need my characters to reflect the people I know and love in real life. Bad things frequently happen to good people, they just do. And whilst I love writing about a fictional village that features the best of Cornwall – beautiful beaches, picture postcard cottages and strong community I do need a smattering of something to balance that out. In the county I love we have all those things but it doesn’t mean that behind closed doors that life is as perfect as it is pretty.

My poor children have always had it rammed home that it’s not the things that life throws at you that are important, it’s the way that you deal with them that counts. And that has to be true in fiction as well. We need to see how our characters respond to real-life situations, to the tough things that real people have to face every single day. I want to recognise when I write that everyday people are as heroic and wonderful as characters in books, that they too have to deal with the most dreadful things and, apart from an occasional understandable wallow, they get up and keep going.

On the flipside are the joyful things about life, the big stuff – people we love, personal achievements and the everyday stuff, the hedgerows and the birds, a good book and delicious things to eat, or whatever your little joys are. The happy keeps us going when we have the awful, the awful makes us appreciate the happy.

I hope by bringing these subjects into my books, I am reflecting this balance and also acknowledging the heroic nature of what people have to deal with every day, and how I am in awe of the sheer resilience and goodness of human beings and life in general.

All love, Kitty.