Kate’s book grabbed me in the first few lines:

‘Menopause is transformative…an opportunity to evolve & grow. Menopause is a loud call to re-evaluate who we think we are, and to become our true selves with authenticity & grace.’

‘Yes!’ I thought & grabbed my highlighter, I knew I was going to like this book.

Kate Codrington  invites the reader to consider the seasons of our life like the seasons of our year: active & adventurous in Spring & Summer, quieter, more inwards in the Autumn & Winter, emerging, reborn if you like, into our Second Spring.

Peri-menopause is our Autumn phase, menopause our Winter stage. We are being called to slow down, turn inwards, take stock, re-evaluate. This is something I absolutely believe in.

Taking the time to nurture & nourish ourselves in our Autumn & Winter stages allows us to emerge again with vitality, vibrance & a lust for life.

Kate takes us on a holistic journey, exploring the psychological & physical issues as well as the emotional, mental, spiritual aspects of the separation encountered during peri-meno; surrender during the menopause & emergence of post-menopause.

It’s broken into short, really easy to digest sections, quotes, anecdotes, so it’s really easy to pick up when you have 5 minutes & just as easy to get lost in. I went through 3 highlighters reading it!

There are facts & figures, tips & advise & down to earth suggestions of a more traditional & more holistic approach.

In my own meno journey, I had very little experience of menopause until it was apparent I was up to my ears in it. As soon as I started talking to friends I realized I wasn’t alone. I started doing lots of research & doing the work: turning inwards, slowing down, making changes so that I could live my best life for the rest if my life.

But I had never really considered my peri-meno journey. Having been diagnosed over a decade ago with severe agitated depression, I had however begun to question this diagnosis, as I began to understand that many women are misdiagnosed with mental health issues in their peri-menopause.

Reading Kate’s own description of being peri-menopausal with babies resonated so profoundly with my own experience. Finally something made sense. I carried a lot of shame for being a bad mum, letting everyone down, unable to cope when in fact I was experiencing the peri-menopause. Wow that was powerful – such a relief, finally I could let go of all those old story lines.

Kate also offers practices to try out at the end of each chapter. In all honesty, I have a good solid self-care practice. I know what works for me & I’m unapologetic about claiming the time for this. So I definitely got more from the body of the book than these sections.

However, if you don’t prioritize yourself regularly, try not to be overwhelmed by the suggestions, pick one that resonates & give it a go. Nurturing & nourishing yourself through this transition is absolutely key.

At the end of the day, I always think if you come away with a couple of good ideas from a book like this it’s done its job.

So, what have I come away with? A great deal & can’t recommend this book more highly because even if you’re not menopausal, I bet you know someone who is – after all approx. 1/3 of the female population are estimated to be surfing their Autumn, Winter or Second Spring phase.

I love Kate’s vision for the menopause, it’s absolutely what I believe in;  embracing this life changing transition as an opportunity to create a life you absolutely love, because you are absolutely worth it.

Buy it, learn from it. I have.

Second Spring by Kate Codrington. Available from all good book stores and online too.

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Alex is based on the edge of the stunning Cotswolds & has been sharing her love for all things yoga & mindfulness for almost a decade, not just in the UK but also around the world. Having used her training & knowledge to navigate her own menopausal journey & create a life in which she is thriving, Alex is devoted in supporting other’s in this life changing transition.