The Perfect Send Off: 5 Essential Tips for a Memorable Tribute

A funeral is a sad time, of course, but it should also be seen as a celebration of the person’s life, remembering everything that was great about them and giving them the perfect send off. It’s a chance to remember the reasons that person was so loved and valued, and the contribution they made to your life.

A lot of people leave funerals thinking “that was a brilliant send off” and admiring the various factors that made it the perfect tribute. But, with every person different and having their own idea of a how they want to be buried or cremated, it can be quite difficult to choose what is “essential” to a successful funeral. No matter how well you knew the person – you might be their partner or a family member, or just a close friend – it can be difficult to get it just right and “how they would’ve wanted it.”

To help you plan the perfect send off, there are plenty of funeral directors available to help you through the process, such as Co-op funeralcare. However, there may be some personal touches that you would like to arrange things yourself. Here are five of the most important factors that you can base the day around:

 

Funeral wishes

Obviously, you need to respect the wishes of the person if they told you the way they wanted their funeral to go. For instance, they might have asked for a cremation specifically, or a burial and may even have asked for a particular type of coffin.

 

Location

If they’ve lived somewhere all of their life, or are particularly fond of a location, then burying them or scattering their ashes there would be fitting. A lot of people choose to have their ashes scattered in lakes or on football grounds for example; while others might want to be buried close to their family in particular graveyards.

 

Guests

It’s key that everyone the person would like to celebrate their life is invited to the funeral. Family, close friends, colleagues and team mates generally want to pay their respects and it’s vital that there is room for the nearest and dearest at the location, so consider those closest to the deceased first.

 

Music

What better tribute would there be than to play the person’s favourite song. Maybe they were really keen on one particular musician or group, and playing their music at the funeral would be far better than more traditional music that they may have had no connection to.

 

Clothing

The person might have had their favourite clothes – maybe a suit, football shirt or dress – and in which case it might be a nice tribute to dress them in that outfit.

 

Whatever you decide to do for the day, consider what the person would have chosen if they’d planned the day themselves. It’s very easy to get swept away by generic funeral plans, but the day can be much more memorable with all the things that meant a lot to the person – the people and themes predominantly.

Cool Family Activities to Do Over the Summer

When the children are off school all Summer it’s difficult to keep them entertained without spending an arm or a leg. It’s worth looking online for events locally to you on directory websites, to be able to get out and about as a family for as cheaply as possible.

Another option is monitoring online competitions, which are often advertised via social media, such as this one from Wow247 where you can win an annual merlin pass allowing you entry into over thirty attractions for free for four people (normally costing £146!). This also means exclusive offers on short breaks within resorts such as Legoland and Chessington Hotel.

You could also find some free activities online to do such as arranged park explorations to identify animals, trails and their habitats. Check out the top film releases and buy a family ticket to receive a discount.

If it’s enjoying your own home that you want to do then get baking with the kids, teaching them about ingredients, shopping for a recipe and culinary skills. What better excuse to invite friends and family round for a tea party afterwards to enjoy the fruits of your labour.

Hopefully, you’ve been inspired to keep your eyes out on the Internet for discount deals, as well as competitions and free activities to keep you all busy over the holidays for a realistic price.

The Best Theatres in the UK

A visit to the theatre is criminally under-rated in my view.  The right combination of words, said in the right way and by the right actor or actress can inspire everything from howling laughter to heartfelt tears.  Fortunately, we here in England are lucky enough to have some of the finest theatres in the world on our doorstop.  Here, then, are what I believe to be some of the best theatres in the UK:

The Globe.  Like this one wasn’t going to be on the list!  The Globe Theatre as it exists now is a reconstruction of the original, which was where Shakespeare presented his plays when they were first performed.  Conforming to the original blueprint, the modern version was designed so that, like the first Globe, the focus was on performance and atmospherics, rather than on special effects.  Just like Shakespeare’s day, the cheapest standing seats go almost right up to the stage.  Seeing a Shakespeare play at the Globe is a once in a lifetime experience.

The Edinburgh Fringe Theatre.  Though it’s best known for being used as the main hall during the yearly Edinburgh festival (something everyone should participate in, by the way), the Fringe theatre puts on productions all year round, a great deal of them focused on the development of new talent.  If you’re in Edinburgh when a production is being shown, you should go and check it out.

The National Theatre.  Another London venue, the National theatre actually covers three different venues which prolifically put on new plays by up-and-coming writers and performers, as well as the more established names.    Every morning, some cheap tickets are released for the latest shows, so it’s worth grabbing a coffee and queuing to see if you can get in to see a big name or two for a bargain price.

The Dominion Theatre.  If there was such a thing as the Rock’n’Roll theatre, it would probably be the Dominion.  In its younger days, the Dominion played host to a great deal of musicals, such as the theatrical versions of Grease, Scrooge the Musical and Beauty and the Beast.  However, in recent years the theatre has been engaged in a non-stop run of the Queen Musical, We Will Rock You.  Perhaps the most legendary performance at the theatre, though, came not from music but from comedy: US funnyman Bill Hicks filmed his legendary Revelations special at the venue.

The Old Vic.  Throughout history the Royal Theatre has played host to some of the finest actors and actresses in history.   Almost every acting legend has played at least one role on the famous stage:  Laurence Olivier, Sir John Gielgud, Patrick Stewart, Ian McKellen, Ralph Richardson, Judi Dench, Maggie Smith, Peter O’Toole a few of the names that spring up in the venue’s illustrious history.  Since 2004, the Old Vic has been under the direction of the top-notch American actor Kevin Spacey, who has continued to put on some superb productions, as well as starring in a few himself (his Richard III sold out every single night of its run).

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