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Interview With Former British Diplomat And Writer Leigh Turner

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(2017) In his last post as ambassador to Vienna, Leigh gave many interviews about Brexit. 

I am a long-time fan of Leigh Turner, having read his book Palladium and Lessons in Diplomacy – Politics, Power and Parties. He’s a very interesting person and I recommend following him on Instagram.

Tell us about you.

I became a writer in 2002. That was the year I began a four-year break from full-time work at the British Embassy in Berlin to look after our children, then aged eight and ten, so my diplomat wife could work full-time. She took over my job in the embassy. I’d begun my first novel, Eternal Life, in 1986. That was when the British Embassy in Vienna, where I was then working, got its first word-processor. I thought: ‘wow – you can edit your work before printing it! That’ll make writing much easier.’ Of course, it didn’t. But although I made some progress with my writing while I was working full-time as a diplomat, in Vienna, Moscow and Berlin, I found taking a break from full-time work transformative. 

In the four years from 2002, I started writing for the Financial Times, sold two treatments to a film company, attended writing courses, and wrote two novels. When I returned to the Foreign Office full-time in 2006 as Director of Overseas Territories (Saint Helena, Bermuda, the Falklands & Co), then as Ambassador to Ukraine, I continued to write. 

Unfortunately, the Foreign Office hated me trying to publish fiction and be a diplomat at the same time. They even threatened me with disciplinary action if I persisted after a bust-up in 2014, when I was working as British Consul-General in Istanbul. I started publishing excerpts from my romantic comedy The Cheat on-line. They objected to the rude words! It was a difficult situation. 

So the freedom to write what I wanted was a factor in my deciding to retire in 2021 and focus full-time on writing. Since then, I’ve published three books: Palladium, a thriller set in Istanbul; The Hitchhiker’s Guide to Diplomacy – Wie Diplomatie die Welt erklärt (a series of life lessons, in German, based on my 42-year career as a diplomat and civil servant – the subtitle means “How diplomacy explains the world”), and Lessons in Diplomacy – Politics, Power and Parties, an English version of the same book. 

(1965) Leigh grew up in Lesotho, Southern Africa.

What’s your writing routine?

I’m a bit manic, to be honest. Every morning, after a bit of yoga, I walk my partner to her work, then sit down until lunchtime to write. In the afternoons and sometimes in the evenings I focus on writing-related jobs, including organising book tours and social media – I have a website, a podcast, and post on TikTok, YouTube, Instagram and Linkedin. My “Lessons in Diplomacy” videos on TikTok have the best response – I work hard to publish good stuff for my 5,000 followers! Linkedin yields most speaking opportunities, including talks about “Lessons in Diplomacy”. I always make time to attend schools and universities, in particular, to discuss the book and answer questions.

You have written non-fiction and fiction. What is your favourite?

I love both! Creating characters and stories in fiction is a thrill. I love to work late into the night on a scene, then review what I’ve written in the morning, and find that characters, apparently independently, have led the story into unexpected places. Writing Lessons in Diplomacy was a different experience. The months of painstaking research, scouring my records, fact-checking and – above all – choosing the most fun, enlightening stories to illustrate the “life lessons” that make up the book, was rewarding. Like other writers, I sometimes worry that I’m putting too much of myself on display. When the publishers urged me to include even more Russian honeytrap stories about my travels to Novosibirsk, Vladivostok and elsewhere from 1992-95, I declined. But maybe if there’s ever a Volume 2 I’ll go further.

I loved Lessons in Diplomacy. What are your hopes for the book? Do you want to help people become diplomats? 

The aim of Lessons in Diplomacy is three-fold. I wanted a book about diplomacy that was fun to read, opening up the truth about diplomatic life to the non-expert. Too many of us have a stereotypical view of upper-class twits swanning round the globe. Diplomacy is changing fast, including many more women and other under-represented groups becoming diplomats and ambassadors. 

The book is also designed as a collection of life lessons from diplomacy. It’s not for nothing that the book includes chapters on “How to craft a career”, “How to drink wine and know things”, and “How to know people”. The skills and attributes that make a good diplomat can be applied to many – perhaps all – jobs and careers. I hope people find it useful.

Finally, I hope the book is a breath of fresh air for anyone studying politics or international relations. Many academic textbooks about diplomacy are written by great academics who have never been a diplomat. Others are written by great diplomats who have never written a book. I’m hoping readers will find Lessons in Diplomacy both useful and a great read.

You have lived an exciting life. What made you go into diplomacy?

My parents’ life was a lot more exciting than mine! They moved in 1951, as young adults, to northern Nigeria, and later to Lesotho, in southern Africa. Living in different countries instilled in me a deep interest in what made countries tick, as well as a restless desire to travel. Diplomacy was an obvious job choice, and I had great fortune in getting into the Foreign Office – on my second attempt. But as I say in Lessons in Diplomacy, “Don’t judge a book by its cover.” The jobs I did before the Foreign Office – in the Department of the Environment and the Treasury – were some of the most exciting I ever did – far more so than most Foreign Office jobs!

Germany, Berlin, 08.04.2003 Leigh Turner, author, with his children Owen and Anna preparing cakes. Working on a novel set in the Foreign Office. Job Swaps. (c) Stefan Boness/Ipon, www.iponphoto.com

I loved how you took some time out to be with your children. Do you wish more men would do this?

The four years I spent looking after the children full-time, while my wife took my job in the British Embassy in Berlin, were the best four years of my working life. I was able to form a deeper bond with my children, to look at the world in a different way. I encourage all men to take seriously the option of some time out to help raise their kids. I recognise that not all parents have jobs that allow them to stop work for four years; or enough income for one parent to support the family. But do explore the options! Many women thought a man taking time off to bring up children was fabulous. But many men were hostile. They seemed to feel threatened by what I was doing. 

Who are your favourite authors and books?

I’m an eclectic reader. I immensely enjoy modern thrillers such as Lee Child or Vince Flynn. But I also love romantic thrillers – I recently enjoyed books by Sophie Kinsella and Mhairi McFarlane. And I have a soft spot for the classics – I’m nearing the end of a “read all books by Dickens” campaign, and love anything by Anthony Trollope. I’ve written a lot about Trollope on my rleighturner.com blog – although he’s a 19thC writer he has a lot to tell us about relationships, gender and power.

What advice do you have for aspiring writers?

Persevere, and train your writing skills! Submitting books to agents and publishers is a cruel, unrelenting slog. But you have to keep doing it in the hope that one day, your painstakingly constructed work will see the light of day. There’s also the option of self-publishing, which I have tried, and which can work brilliantly. But it’s worth trying for a “traditional” publishing route first, if you can, to give your book the best chance.

I’m also a huge fan of honing your art. Writing courses are great ways to get feedback on your work, and mutual support. I go on courses regularly, and am even teaching on one in September 2025, in Lesbos, Greece. Details of the Lesbos course, and on other writing courses I’ve attended, and recommend, are on my blog. 

Writing groups are also terrific. I’m in a virtual group with five writers from the US and Canada that meets every month. Their comments on my work have helped me improve my writing. They’ve also strengthened my self-belief – invaluable!

What’s next?

I’m currently working on a trilogy of romantic comedies I call the “Diplomats in trouble” series. I’m excited about it, although, as always, it’s not yet certain it will ever see the light of day. My hero Angus is a protagonist many test readers, mostly women, love to see try, and fail, and try and try again, to find love and a meaningful relationship in the chaos that is modern life. Watch this space.

Leigh has also written extensively about Russia’s war on Ukraine, in his book “Lessons in Diplomacy” and on his website.

The Intersection of Style and Function: Choosing the Right Roof for Your Home and Lifestyle

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When choosing a roof for your home, the decision goes far beyond simply selecting a material or style. Your roof defines your home’s character, safeguards your family, and influences energy efficiency. Homeowners in places like Longmont, Colorado, face unique challenges due to local climate conditions, including hailstorms, snow, and intense sunlight. This makes choosing the right roof particularly important in a community that values both aesthetics and practicality. Longmont’s blend of modern neighborhoods and historic districts means residents have diverse needs for roofing solutions. A roof must complement architectural styles, withstand harsh weather, and meet local building codes. The right choice combines visual appeal with functionality, offering durability and energy savings. Let’s explore how to make the best decision.

1. Understanding the Basics of Roofing Materials
Roofs come in various materials, each with distinct advantages and limitations. Asphalt shingles remain the most popular choice due to affordability and versatility. Metal roofs, often preferred for their durability, reflectivity, and contemporary appeal, have become increasingly common in areas with significant weather variations. Clay and concrete tiles exude a timeless charm but require a sturdy structure to support their weight. Slate offers unmatched elegance and longevity but comes with a higher price tag. Finally, wood shakes provide a rustic look, though they demand regular maintenance to prevent weather-related wear. By understanding these materials, homeowners can identify options that align with their budgets, aesthetics, and functional needs.

2. Considering Climate and Local Weather
Longmont’s weather patterns, including heavy snowfall, intense sun, and occasional hailstorms, demand roofing materials that prioritize durability and weather resistance. Asphalt shingles reinforced for hail impact or metal roofs with specialized coatings provide excellent options for these conditions. Local roofing professionals, like a trusted Longmont roofing company, possess in-depth knowledge of regional needs and building standards. Consulting with them ensures your choice balances style and resilience. Whether preserving energy during summer or preventing leaks in winter, the right roof adapts to environmental challenges while enhancing your home’s aesthetic appeal.

3. Aligning with Your Home’s Architecture
A roof should complement your home’s architectural design, seamlessly blending function with style. For example, asphalt shingles pair well with modern and suburban homes, while metal roofs can elevate minimalist or industrial aesthetics. Traditional homes, including those with Victorian or colonial designs, often benefit from slate or clay tiles, adding timeless character. When selecting a roofing material, assess your home’s structural lines and facade. A mismatch between your roof and architecture can diminish curb appeal and reduce overall property value.

4. Balancing Longevity and Maintenance
Roofing is a long-term investment, so durability should rank high on your list of priorities. Materials like slate and metal boast impressive lifespans, often exceeding 50 years, but they come with higher upfront costs. Asphalt shingles, though less durable, remain budget-friendly and easier to replace. Additionally, some materials require regular maintenance, such as sealing, painting, or cleaning, to maintain their appearance and functionality. Before committing, evaluate your willingness to invest time or money into maintenance. Opting for materials requiring less upkeep can save headaches and costs in the long run.

5. Emphasizing Energy Efficiency
Energy-efficient roofing not only reduces environmental impact but also saves on utility bills. Reflective surfaces, like those found in metal or light-colored shingles, minimize heat absorption and lower cooling costs during summer. Similarly, well-insulated roofs reduce heat loss in winter, making your home more comfortable year-round. Roofing materials with high solar reflectance and thermal emittance ratings ensure optimal energy savings. In areas like Longmont, where sunny days are abundant, choosing energy-efficient options can significantly reduce cooling demands while aligning with sustainable practices.

6. Weighing the Costs and Long-Term Value
While the upfront cost of a roofing material is an important factor, evaluating the long-term value is equally crucial. A lower-cost material, like standard asphalt shingles, might save money initially but could require more frequent replacements. On the other hand, investing in premium options such as slate, metal, or clay tiles often pays off in terms of durability and reduced maintenance costs. Factor in additional expenses, like installation, underlayment, and repairs, to get a complete picture of your investment. A quality roof boosts resale value, enhances curb appeal, and minimizes unexpected expenses, making it a wise choice for homeowners prioritizing long-term benefits over immediate savings.

7. Choosing Sustainable Roofing Solutions
Sustainability has become a key consideration for modern homeowners. Eco-friendly roofing options, such as metal, recycled shingles, or living roofs, align with environmental goals while delivering functional benefits. Recycled shingles utilize repurposed materials, reducing waste without compromising performance. Similarly, metal roofs are fully recyclable at the end of their lifespan, making them an excellent choice for eco-conscious buyers. Living roofs, though less common, provide natural insulation and stormwater management while enhancing air quality. By selecting sustainable options, you contribute to reducing your home’s environmental footprint while enjoying energy-efficient and durable roofing solutions.

8. Enhancing Safety and Weather Resistance
Safety is a non-negotiable aspect of roofing. Certain materials excel in withstanding specific weather conditions. For instance, metal and slate roofs offer superior resistance to hail and fire, while asphalt shingles reinforced with impact-resistant technology can handle moderate storm damage. Consider the slope of your roof, as steeper slopes tend to shed snow and rain more effectively, reducing the risk of structural stress. In areas prone to extreme weather, installing additional features like storm anchors or sealing can bolster your roof’s performance. Investing in high-quality, weather-resistant materials safeguards your home and ensures peace of mind.

Choosing the perfect roof for your home is a blend of style, functionality, and foresight. It involves assessing your local climate, home architecture, budget, and personal preferences. Longmont residents, for example, face specific weather challenges that demand thoughtful consideration of materials and installation techniques. Beyond immediate needs, the right roof enhances energy efficiency, reduces environmental impact, and elevates property value. By prioritising quality, durability, and professional guidance, you can ensure your roofing investment protects your home and reflects your lifestyle for years to come.

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Interview With I.S. Berry Author, The Peacock and the Sparrow

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Did you always want to be a CIA agent?

Not at all. I wanted to be a writer! But I studied at London School of Economics in college, and fell in love with living abroad and foreign affairs. It was the 1990s and communism had collapsed, which was a fascinating time to be in Europe. After I graduated, I edited a newspaper in Prague, then worked as an intelligence analyst for the U.S. government in Cambridge, England, shuttling back and forth to the Balkans. I found I was passionate about intelligence work, so I applied to the CIA. While waiting for my application to process, I attended law school and studied international law. 9/11 happened while I was in law school, and I felt grateful I was on a job track that would serve my country.

When did you realise you wanted to be a writer?

For as long as I can remember! I’ve always loved books and words. My adolescence and young adulthood are littered with failed attempts at novels. While traveling Europe in my twenties – exploring, trying to figure out who I was – I remember musing in my journal that, while I’d probably follow a more practical career path, my secret dream was to be a writer. But it wasn’t until I’d worked as a spy that I had something really meaningful to write about, that it all came together.

What do you think is behind the world’s fascination with the CIA and the world of spies?

The secrecy, I think. Espionage is an entire world beneath the surface, a netherworld. And spying is a profession of high stakes, where lives and geopolitics – the fate of both people and nations – are on the line. Also, espionage involves inherently colorful characters – people willing to commit the ultimate betrayal.

Your characters are so vivid. Do you base them on real people?

My characters are mostly composites, except for the station chief, who was inspired by a real person. Also, the expat community is based on real people, and much of the dialogue is taken verbatim from actual conversations.

Can you describe your writing routine. 

I try to go for a three-mile run each morning. Then I either go to my local coffeeshop or set up camp in my study and write for a few hours. I can’t write too much without printing out and editing, because things read differently to me on paper, and I need to get the story right before I proceed too far.

The book is negative about the CIA. Where you disillusioned?

A bit. I joined the Agency a few months after 9/11, and it was a time of transition and, at times, chaos. My first tour, as a counterterrorist case office in Baghdad during the apex of the war (fall 2004 to fall 2005), was challenging: we weren’t making much progress, the work environment was stressful, and most of us – myself included – returned with PTSD. I made decisions in a fog of war and espionage that haunted me and carried their own trauma. The fundamental skill required for the job – manipulating people – never sat easily with me. Now, years later, with the dust settled, I have a softer view of that time. I wouldn’t say my book paints the CIA in a negative light so much as it paints espionage in a negative light. For me, spying was an uncomfortable, debilitating profession, and that’s what I wanted to convey.

What are your thoughts on the CIA now. Did you find writing the book healing?

I think the CIA has made a lot of progress. The war on terror is over, and the Agency has had time to take a breath, evaluate its operations and internal culture. It’s more introspective and self-critical now. When I was there, the Agency was a bit of an old boys network. Since then, the “Me Too” movement has had an impact: there are rules about and awareness of sexual harassment; female officers speak up about inappropriate treatment; and women fill more leadership positions. I do think writing my book was cathartic. When I finished, I realized how many of my ghosts had come out on the pages. They’re still with me, but now I can better articulate and make sense of them.

The book is unflinchingly honest and brave. Did you ever have a moment of doubt about putting your heart and soul on the page?

Thank you! Yes – though more so after my book was published. I wrote my manuscript in a vacuum (CIA rules prohibit me from showing my writing to anyone until it’s been cleared), so I didn’t even think about getting my story out in the world at the time. Exposing my inner turmoil was still an abstraction. Once I was published, I realized that now everyone could see my scars and the effect espionage had on me. But so many former intelligence officers have found my book resonant, I’ve felt more reward than apprehension in telling this story.

Joseph Weisberg, creator of the TV series The Americans, called your book the “the most realistic espionage story I’ve read.” How did that feel, and do you agree?

Well, I haven’t read all the spy novels out there, so I feel unqualified to judge! But I take Joe’s blurb as a huge compliment, and was honored to get such an amazing endorsement from the creator of a masterful, iconic series. I do think many spy novels skew toward the sensational – car chases, roof scaling – and mine is based more on my own experiences, and the tradecraft and operations I conducted. Also, tradecraft is fundamentally psychological, not technological or gadget-based, and I think my story reflects this. Above all, I wanted to convey a visceral sense of espionage, and insiders tell me I’ve succeeded at that.

What books, films and TV shows get the spy world right?

For film, Beirut, Spy Game, and Ghosts of Beirut are some of my favorites. For novels, Graham Greene’s The Quiet American and most of le Carré books (The Little Drummer Girl is my favorite) – all written years ago, but, in the most important ways, as authentic today as they were then.

It’s nice to have a female voice in the world of spy novelists. Do you think you’ve paved the way for more?

I hope so! It’s shocking to me how few female spy novelists there are (though, we’re out there – I’m in good company with Merle Nygate and Alma Katsu, to name a few).

What’s next?

Another spy novel! This time, a female protagonist. It’s about the intersection of spying and writing…and I think that’s all I can say for now!

Interviewing I.S. Berry was both a pleasure and a privilege. You can read my review of her stunning novel, which was named as the The Times thriller of the year, here. You can buy The Peacock and the Sparrow here. I.S Berry’s website is a great resources and her socials are below.

Buy now – Simon & Schuster Web: isberry.net X: @isberryauthor IG: @isberryauthor

The Peacock And The Sparrow by I.S. Berry Book Review.

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I can’t stop thinking about The Peacock And The Sparrow by I.S Berry. I love spy novels and this is searingly honest. Few authors have the courage to write a character in technicolour the way I.S Berry has. Warts and all. Shane Collins, the morally complex main character, is written with as much depth as the other characters. All of this book feels real and is written with bravery. Each character feels like their own person.

This is a beautifully brutal literary novel about the CIA. The story is brought vividly to life so you feel like you are really there, stationed in Bahrain. The Peacock And The Sparrow is a hard read sometimes because I.S Berry, who spent six years as a CIA operations officer, doesn’t pull her punches. I will reread this clever book which has a twist you won’t see coming. Impossible to put down. This is a modern classic. Buy a copy NOW.

The thrilling debut from author and former CIA officer I.S. Berry, following an American spy’s last dangerous mission.

Shane Collins, a world-weary CIA spy, is ready to come in from the cold. Stationed in Bahrain for his final tour, he’s anxious to dispense with his mission — uncovering Iranian support for the insurgency. But then he meets Almaisa, an enigmatic artist, and his eyes are opened to a side of Bahrain most expats never experience, to questions he never thought to ask.

When his trusted informant becomes embroiled in a murder, Collins finds himself drawn deep into the conflict, his romance and loyalties upended. In an instant, he’s caught in the crosswinds of a revolution. He sets out to learn the truth behind the Arab Spring, win Almaisa’s love, and uncover the murky border where Bahrain’s secrets end and America’s begin.

Now optioned for film by Scott Delman of Shadowfox productions (Producer of HBO Max hit series Station Eleven).

The Peacock and The Sparrow is available here.

Seasonal Style: The Best Men’s Fashion Trends for Autumn and Winter

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Navigating the in-between transition from summer heat to the nippy, ice-cold breeze can often leave one’s wardrobe in a bit of disarray. However, the challenge and beauty of dressing during the chilly seasons is to find a balance between utility and style. When the leaves start to fall and the temperature begins to drop, it is time to look for the best men’s fashion trends for autumn and winter. 

These upcoming trends emphasize comfort while marrying it with an unforgettable style. Here are eight of the hottest trends for the cool seasons.

Comfort Meets Trendy

The cozier the clothing, the better. This autumn and winter, comfy attire is getting a major upgrade. We’re not talking about those baggy sweatpants you wore throughout quarantine but the elevated version of them. Picture joggers made with luxurious materials such as wool and cashmere, distinctly designed for both comfort and aesthetic appeal. Knitted pullovers and cardigans with bold, distinctive patterns are also making a strong comeback. Combining these with a crisp shirt or turtleneck just screams polished coziness.

Overcoats Reign Supreme

When it comes to outerwear, overcoats take center stage this season. They come in a plethora of colors and patterns for all tastes. Be it a classic camel coat or a patterned version, an overcoat can be paired with both professional and casual outfits – making it the perfect multipurpose wardrobe essential.

Embrace the Turtleneck

Turtlenecks are no longer solely for academics or boho artists. They’ve been thrust back into the spotlight for autumn-winter fashion, epitomizing understated elegance. Available in a range of fabrics from knitted to cotton, they can be worn under a blazer or paired with denim for a refined casual look. 

Trousers Go Wide

Step aside, skinny jeans. The dominating trend this season is all about wide-legged trousers. Comfortable and effortlessly stylish, these pants pair well with slim-fit tops for a balanced silhouette — offering a refreshing break from the snug fits of past seasons. 

Pattern-mixing Up a Storm

Playing it safe is a thing of the past. This season encourages you to step out of your comfort zone. Mixing and matching disparate patterns like plaids, stripes, and checks are all part of the game. Remember, the key is to select one dominant pattern and use others to accentuate it.

Black and Brown, The Winning Combo

Once upon a time, fashionistas turned their nose up to the combination of black and brown. However upcoming trends are demonstrating that a mix of these colors can deliver a sophisticated and polished look. Try incorporating shades of black and brown through different elements of your outfit.

Boot Up

Boots never go out of style and are absolutely integral to the autumn-winter men’s fashion. From the classic Chelsea to rugged lace-ups, the right boot can enhance any outfit’s charm.

Leather Everything

Leather – whether it’s jackets, bags, or accessories – has a timeless allure. In addition to its undeniable style, leather is also a great material for winter as it provides insulation against the cold.

In conclusion, this year’s autumn-winter fashion trends underscore the beauty of pairing comfort with style. From chic overcoats to versatile turtlenecks and bold pattern mixing, these trends offer an awe-inspiring mix that caters to every man’s style. Remember, the key to nailing seasonal style is blending contemporary trends with timeless classics. Keep warm, and stay stylish.

Rewrite your night routine with 100 Poems to Help you Sleep

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‘Into the golden land of dreams’

Last night as I lay gazing with shut eyes

Henry David Thoreau

With levels of insomnia on the rise, the idea of enjoying a full night of good quality sleep seems to have become a dream of its own. 

This pocket-sized collection of comforting poetry is the perfect nighttime soother that makes putting the phone down easy, in exchange for a few moments of mindful bliss. 

In this second book within a brand-new series, discover the lullabies cherished by cultures across the world, verse that worships and praises the nighttime as well as poems that encourage gratitude and optimism for the day ahead, featuring words from literary greats such as Emily Bronte, W.B Yeats and Robert Louis Stevenson.

Let this tranquil poetry anthology improve your sleep and overall wellbeing. 

Jane McMorland Hunter writes and edits books on the good things in life: gardening, nature, cookery, craft and poetry, whilst also working part-time at Hatchards Bookshop, London. She has written and edited several books, including A Happy Poem to End Every Day, Ode to London, Favourite Poems of England, A Nature Poem for Every Day of the Year and Nature Writing for Every Day of the Year. She lives in west London and can be found on social media @alittlecitygarden. 

With 100 carefully chosen poems, featuring verse about the beauty of the nighttime as well as an array of restful, tranquil, and meditative verse, 100 Poems to Help You Sleep is an essential pocket-sized guide for anyone in search of better-quality sleep. 

After a 2021 study showed that 42% of individuals feel their sleep improves from reading before bed, the push to reduce screentime has become increasingly imperative. This calming collection makes putting down the phone down easy, with its comforting words reshaping your nighttime routine. 

As the second in a new series of pocket-sized poetry, discover classical lullabies cherished by cultures all over the world and poems that encourage gratitude and optimism for what each day can bring. Observe the night sky with Emily Brontë, visit the Lake Isle of Innisfree with W. B. Yeats, and experience Shakespeare’s most calming verses. 

Poems include the serene ‘In the Evening’ by Nikki Giovanni, the upbeat ‘Everything Is Going to Be Alright’ by Derek Mahon, the nursery classic ‘My Bed is a Boat’ by Robert Louis Stevenson, and many more that are just perfect for the quiet hours of the night.

100 Poems to Help you Sleep by Jane McMorland Hunter is publishing by Batsford and out now.

Discover your ‘sleep in a jar’ night cream to protect, treat and support your skin with Dr Somji Skincare

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Newly launched Night Recovery Cream from Dr Somji Skincare is perfect for Christmas. It’s the perfect treat for your skin while you enjoy a quiet night in, preparing for the Christmas cheer ahead. 

Night Recovery Cream, £85 

Available from drsomjiskincare.com

Did you know that the best time for skin rejuvenation and regeneration is while we sleep? As the holiday season gets busier, with late nights filled with festive fun and all the classic holiday havoc, it’s easy to forget to pamper our skin. This is exactly why a nurturing nighttime routine is essential to keep us looking and feeling our best.

Packed with powerful ingredients like hyaluronic acid to draw in moisture and squalane to lock it in, this cream boosts your skin’s hydration while you rest. Its unique formula, including encapsulated retinol, Indian gentian extract, and probiotics, works to smooth wrinkles, even out skin tone, and strengthen your skin’s barrier. It supports your skin’s natural repair and regeneration process overnight, helping restore balance and reduce the effects of internal stress.

Think of it as your “sleep in a jar” – a multi-tasking wonder that protects, treats, and restores your skin while you dream. Whether you’re treating yourself or gifting it to a beauty lover, it’s the perfect holiday skincare essential for anyone looking to streamline their nighttime routine with one transformative product.

Tips to Transform Your Bedroom into a Luxurious Retreat

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Your bedroom should be more than just a place to sleep—it should feel like a sanctuary, offering relaxation and rest after a busy day. Transforming your bedroom into a luxurious retreat doesn’t require an expensive overhaul. With a few thoughtful adjustments, you can create a stylish and serene space that combines comfort and elegance. From choosing high-quality bedding to enhancing the atmosphere with lighting, paying attention to the details can help you craft a personal haven.

This guide provides practical tips to elevate your bedroom’s design and comfort, helping you create a space that feels like a luxury retreat every day.

Choose High-Quality Bedding

The bed is the centrepiece of any bedroom, and high-quality bedding can significantly improve both its comfort and appearance. Investing in premium materials enhances your sleep and adds a touch of luxury to your space.

A bamboo duvet cover is an excellent choice, known for its softness and breathability. Bamboo fabric is perfect for creating a cosy and inviting bed while being an eco-friendly option. Its natural properties make it a sustainable choice for those looking to incorporate environmentally conscious elements into their home.

Pair the duvet cover with plush pillows and a high-thread-count sheet set for a complete upgrade. To maximise comfort and style, opt for bedding in neutral or soft tones that complement your room’s colour scheme. Adding a throw blanket or decorative cushions can further enhance the look, making your bed the focal point of your retreat.

Opt for a Calming Colour Palette

The colours in your bedroom play a significant role in setting the overall mood. A calming colour palette helps create a relaxing environment, promoting rest and rejuvenation. Soft, neutral tones like beige, grey, or pastels work well, as they evoke a sense of tranquillity.

Consider painting the walls in a muted hue and coordinating your bedding, curtains, and decor to match. For example, pairing light grey walls with white bedding and soft blush accents creates an elegant and cohesive look. If you prefer a splash of personality, incorporate pops of color through decor items like cushions or artwork.

Aim for balance and harmony when choosing colours. Avoid overly bold or bright shades that might feel overwhelming, as the goal is to create a peaceful space that encourages relaxation.

Incorporate Elegant Lighting

Lighting is a key element in creating a luxurious bedroom. The right lighting can enhance the atmosphere, making the space feel warm and inviting. A layered lighting approach works best, combining ambient, task, and accent lighting to achieve a versatile and well-lit room.

Start with a central fixture, such as a chandelier or pendant light, for overall illumination. Add bedside lamps or wall sconces for task lighting, ideal for reading or unwinding in the evening. Accent lighting, such as LED strips or candles, can create a soft and romantic glow.

Opt for warm-toned bulbs to add a cosy feel and avoid harsh white light, which can seem clinical. Dimmable switches are a great addition, allowing you to adjust brightness to suit your mood or activity. Thoughtful lighting choices can transform your bedroom into a sophisticated and relaxing retreat.

Add Texture and Layers

Incorporating textures and layers is an easy way to add depth and warmth to your bedroom. A mix of materials such as velvet, linen, and faux fur can create a cosy and visually interesting space.

Start with a soft area rug underfoot, adding both comfort and a design anchor for the room. Layer your bedding with throws and cushions in contrasting textures—think a silky quilt paired with a chunky knit blanket. Floor-length curtains in rich fabrics like linen or velvet enhance the luxurious feel while also providing privacy and light control.

Balance is essential when layering textures. Focus on creating a cohesive look that ties everything together without overcrowding the space. These thoughtful touches will make your bedroom feel inviting and upscale.

Invest in Stylish and Functional Furniture

The furniture in your bedroom plays a key role in both functionality and style. Choosing pieces that are practical and visually appealing can make a significant difference in creating a luxurious retreat.

An upholstered bed frame or headboard adds elegance and serves as a comfortable backrest. Storage furniture, such as ottomans or bedside tables with drawers, helps keep the room tidy and clutter-free. This contributes to a calm, organised space essential for relaxation.

Look for furniture with clean lines and quality materials like wood or metal to create a timeless and sophisticated aesthetic. Arrange your furniture thoughtfully to maximise space and maintain a balanced layout. Adding a bench at the foot of the bed or a reading nook with a stylish armchair enhances the room’s functionality without compromising its elegance.

Enhance the Senses with Fragrance

Scent is often overlooked in bedroom design, but incorporating pleasant aromas can elevate the overall experience. Calming fragrances like lavender, vanilla, or sandalwood are known for their relaxing properties and can help improve sleep quality.

Essential oil diffusers are an excellent way to fill the room with subtle, long-lasting scents. Alternatively, use candles, incense, or linen sprays to add a fragrant touch to your space. Choose gentle scents that create a soothing environment without overwhelming the room.

Position your chosen fragrance sources strategically, such as placing a diffuser on a nightstand or a scented candle on your dresser. These small additions can make your bedroom feel like a high-end retreat.

Add Personal Touches and Statement Decor

To make your bedroom truly your own, include personal elements and statement decor that reflect your style. Family photos, meaningful artwork, or travel souvenirs can bring individuality to the space while maintaining its luxurious feel.

Statement pieces like an oversized mirror, bold wall art, or a unique lighting fixture can act as focal points. However, balance is key—stick to one or two statement items to avoid overwhelming the room. A cohesive design theme will help maintain a clean and polished look.

By adding these personal and decorative touches, your bedroom becomes not only beautiful but uniquely yours.

In conclusion, transforming your bedroom into a luxurious retreat is all about thoughtful design choices that prioritise comfort and style. Upgrading to high-quality bedding, selecting a calming colour palette, incorporating elegant lighting, and layering textures can create a relaxing and indulgent space.

Stylish furniture, subtle fragrances, and personal touches further enhance the ambiance, turning your bedroom into a sanctuary you’ll love spending time in. With these practical tips, you can achieve a sophisticated and serene bedroom that promotes rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation.

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