SISTER SCRIBES: KITTY WILSON ON A TIME TO WRITE

I thought I’d write about what I do to help me get my word count done, particularly when it’s being tricky, as it is today!

Writers all give different advice, some feel that writing when you’re in the mood is best otherwise you can lose the joy, the spark of creativity. I am in the opposing school. For me, strict deadlines and real life mean that writing has to be a discipline as well as a pleasure and I am a great believer in writing every day or every day I am able.

Being a bit of a control freak, I do not allow myself a weekend if I haven’t hit my weekly wordcount during the week. It isn’t always easy but I swear by self-discipline and using timers. I find that on those days the words aren’t coming it is important for me to sit at my laptop and stare at that blank page. To make sure I don’t find an excuse not to write I set a timer – only for ten minutes – and I do not move, go online or look at my phone in that time. I usually have something pop into my mind before the ten minutes is up, just to quell the boredom if nothing else. It may not solve the current plot niggle or stay in the final manuscript but it gets me started and more often than not leads somewhere useful.

Even on the days I know what I want to write I have a butterfly mind and constantly seek distraction so again I use a timer at the start with spurts of ten minutes and a little reward after each – a quick check of social media, a scroll through my news app, a cup of tea etc. I usually find I can turn the timer off after a couple of blasts of ten because by that point I’m so involved in the story the words fly out and hours fly by.

This works for me most days but sometimes I get to a sticky bit and I truly can’t think. In which case I sit in water. I know this sounds weird. But I am the clumsiest person in the world. I cannot trust myself to take my phone or laptop in the bath, or the paddling pool on sunny days (yes, I work in a paddling pool!) but I can just about trust myself with a notepad and pen. Then I am truly free from distractions, there’s only so long I can swirl water about dreamily before my mind focuses and inspiration follows. I always end up with a couple of pages of notes for my next scene/ chapter and they are often far more developed and thought out than when I am just in front of the computer.

So, in a nutshell, I use timers on a daily basis and sit in water when I’m stuck. But I want to add that I truly believe in the power of the mind as a sort of super computer and in being kind to yourself. So, if you are really struggling, I think it’s okay to feed your mind the details of what you need resolved, take yourself off and do something different for a bit and somehow, magically, I’ve found the answer always pops up. I just really hope today that my mind hurries up!

 

SISTER SCRIBES’ WOMEN’S WRITING WISDOM 2019

During 2019 Sister Scribes were lucky enough to welcome women writers we admire and have some connection with to Frost and in the process we learnt a great deal. With a new year approaching, here as some of the choicest nuggets to mull over.

 

Alexa Adams: My network of women who I can depend on, confide in, and trust has exploded, and I have a hard time recalling how I ever got by without them. These friendships are the most unexpected gift that writing has bestowed on me, and for them I am immeasurably grateful.

Carol Thomas: Three top tips for working collaboratively:
1) Take a little time to find your way, but also be prepared to step up. Somewhat obvious but … the key to collaboration is collaborating.
2) Be prepared to compromise. Working as part of a group will require it at some point.
3) Be actively supportive of others; you’ll get more from it than you might think. Rightfully so, when it comes to working in a group, you tend to get out, what you put in.

Catherine Boardman: Telling stories is what I love to do.  The solitary nature of sitting down to write suits me perfectly.  Yet it is the support and friendship of fellow female writers makes the procrastination so much more fun.

Daisy Tate: THERE ARE NO FOES in the world of women’s fiction. Along this windy path I’ve walked, I have only met people who are there to help others.

Dr Gaby Malcolm: Ignore anything other than constructive criticism and admire your own work.

Jessica Redland: So far, our joint venture [The Yorkshire Rose Writers] has worked well and we love working together. We’re both excited to see where it could go in the future. My advice to anyone thinking about such a venture, though, is be really clear on your aims and your time commitment right at the start so you’re on the same page.

Maddie Please:  I try to keep the boxes of stationery under control but boxes of pencils, Sharpies and Post-it notes are like cat-nip to me!

Merryn Allingham: When several members of my book group announced recently they didn’t like historical fiction, I was disappointed. But stunned when one went on to say she couldn’t see the point of history. For me, discovering the past doesn’t just illuminate quirky corners of a bygone age but helps understand the world of today….. Researching history complicates that first simple ‘take’ on a culture and a period, changes our perspective, makes connections. And, crucially,  illuminates our own troubled present. Worth paying attention then!

Rachel Brimble: I could not write without women from the past, the present and undoubtedly, the future. Here’s to the strong women who have gone before us and who continue to walk with us today!

RL Fearnley: I realise that I don’t have to write ‘women’ in my stories, I just have to write ‘people’. It should not be a revelation to see that these two things are not mutually exclusive. After all, in worlds where anything is possible, why can’t the quiet, plain girl at the back of the class be the one who takes up the sword and slays the troll?

Tracy Rees: Exploring our dreams as far as possible makes us happier, fuller people, which in turn allows us to help and support others.